A couple of nights ago on ABC2 there was live discussion forum about porn. Among the participants there were commentators, health advocates, members of the general public, and porn performers.
These things can be pretty cheesy, and degenerate pretty quickly into a formless mess of people shouting over each other. This was pretty good. It was bold programming by the ABC, and ultimately quite fascinating.
There were different views put representing different perspectives – the devout Christian say (and ex porn addict) against the porn performer. The psychologist pitted against the conservative commentator. And so on. What was clear is that it’s not easy to have a true understanding of porn that is black and white. It’s multi-faceted, with both good and bad aspects.
I’ve long had pretty general views on porn. Like most I’ve seen my fair share of it. My tastes are pretty vanilla, but I still feel a little shameful whenever I partake in it. But hey, I like a naked female body. I would guess I’m a pretty average guy when it comes to porn.
In recent times I’ve been forced to think about it a lot more, for a very unexpected reason.
As you know, I’m writing a book. The idea behind the book has been in my head for 15 years, but when I came to write it I needed an engine to progress the story. I wanted something dark and mysterious, and ultimately porn (and prostitution) was that engine.
Sometimes I wonder how it came to this. It was not the plan. I’m a little disappointed actually, no matter that it fits the theme of the book very well. I have a couple of other book ideas in my head, one of which featured a very colourful character who becomes a ‘pornographer’. I think that’s where the idea came from. Unfortunately it now means I have to change that character if and when I ever write that book.
What I discovered as I wrote this story is that my views on the sex industry developed. I had only given it a passing consideration previously. My attitude was liberal, live and let live. If people want to do this, fine. I still have that attitude, but it’s more complex than that.
I focus on the dark aspects of the industry. There’s a bleak heart beating at the centre of this book. It’s more about prostitution than pornography, and specifically people trafficking for sexual purposes. That’s a real thing, and evil beyond an average Joe’s comprehension. Ultimately it’s about exploitation.
That’s an aspect of the sex trade I hadn’t considered much previously. It doesn’t always apply, but it certainly can, and often is – people being used (and abused) by unscrupulous characters for profit. They become dehumanised, a plaything for others and a tool for the pimps running them. It’s diabolical.
As I said, I had no real notion of just how dark this was until I began to write about it. It came naturally to that. I followed the story and it led to these terrible places. It was perfect for the story I was writing, but I realised that it was true as well. This isn’t altogether fiction.
Click on a link today. Sure, there are many entrepreneurial women out there sassily using their body to fashion a career. For others it’s no more than some cash on the side, and reasonably harmless as far as they’re concerned. But there’s the rest. How many of those women you see cavorting on screen are virtual prisoners of their ‘profession’. More than you would think I would guess.
I can see some positive benefits of porn, as were highlighted on the show. There was a couple who spoke of how it had transformed their relationship by sharing it. There were others who had never had a meaningful relationship for whom this was an outlet, and occasionally a means of expression. There is good porn and there is bad porn.
There’s many things to be wary about when it comes to pornography. Bad porn promotes unhealthy and often destructive attitudes towards women. It can easily become habitual and psychologically damaging (not to mention anti-social). And it’s often exploitative.
I’m not a crusader or moralist. I can see a place for good porn – or erotica, if you like. That’s porn that’s non-exploitative, and has nothing to do with violence or degradation. It’s a celebration of sex and desire by willing exponents of it. I can buy into that. Most can. I have a girl friend who loves classy porn. Good on her.
The problem is the bad porn. Porn that is exploitative, in every sense of it. Where the performers are used, without will or intent of their own. Where the porn contains violence, or plays upon themes of degradation and abuse. Industrialised porn. Criminalised porn.
Is it going to change? No. It’s such a massive industry that there are few means of controlling it. It’s beamed out through the interwebs, often from someone’s suburban bedroom. It’s not going to get any better, and I expect some of the things I’ve written about in my book will only become more common.